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Being of the mindset that mike could cheat at any time, It would not surprise me if You want to trust he won't get a hooker or prevent him from meeting one? .. I love the title of the article "Xiaxue & her instagram ministar". smiley wrote: Strong love? I don't know about these fans, but Xiaxue's relationship with Mike is nothing to admire about. Meeting @xiaxue @yutakis and @soapz for dinner and it started with Wendy showing a glamorous. After about 2 months of chatting with Mike, he said he'd love to come to Meeting the girl of his dreams for the first time after a good 5 months.
Well I guess things got less awkward after that I stay over at Albert Court with him every night. Sure we fought mostly me getting annoyedbut there was something different. He was so dissimilar to all the guys I've ever dated, be it race, or cultural or character, but we still got along fab. It's all very flattering but a bit scary at the same time.
Everytime I turn to look at him, he'd already be looking at me. When we dine, he would insist on not sitting opposite me but beside me, because he wants to be close to me. During the rare moments where I look at him and he isn't looking at me, he'd be smiling vaguely to himself, apparently very pleased with dunno what.
Now obviously Mike is not like this anymore lor! I wish he was still so impassioned! I guess he was behaving like that coz he thought that after those 7 days, he might never see me again, so he had to treasure every moment of it - drink his fill of looking at me, touching me I brought Mike back home in the afternoon when I knew my mom wouldn't be home - coz I needed to blog! I remember him lying on my bed as he suddenly revealed to me that he knew I went on a date with S Shocked and totally humiliated, I asked him how he knew and he said that long ago I did give him the password to my private blog He said he knew but he still wanted to come to Singapore anyway.
Anything for a chance to be with me. I felt so guilty I almost died, seriously. But I also said, in my defence, we were not in a relationship then. And actually, we were not even in a relationship now! Mike replied that he thought we were, so I said, "Well, you never asked, so I thought you didn't want commitment! It was time for Mike to leave, and I wrote him a letter to be opened on the plane. Lied to Momo everyday for 5 days when I stayed over at Albert Court Told her I was at a chalet!!
My bro was at home when Mike came over and he bao tohed me! Told my mom got one mysterious angmoh came over! So I had no choice but to bring Mike home to see Momo!
She was furious with me for meeting a weird stranger and was convinced Mike is going to murder me. When I first broached the idea to Momo, she went completely berserk and told me absolutely no. She said USA is very dangerous for a girl to go alone and she didn't even trust Mike! She was certain I was going to be shot at, mugged, sold to Thailand as prostitute etc.
It was a lot of money and both Mike and I were utterly poor, but we did it anyway! Wah why we so gung-ho ah? I was just 21 at that time lor!
Plus he could break up with me anytime and leave me alone in USA! The thought still scares me a bit. But tickets were bought And I flew off May 13, While your friends are out with their boyfriends, nobody is there to accompany you.
Nobody to cuddle you when you are ill. Phone calls are expensive and unstable. But well, endured it, and here Mike was againAugust 09, till August 28, !! I had to film for Girls Out Loud during his trip and he just tagged along, bored to death!! Love him so much omg.
Couldn't spend his birthday with him, so I drew a card Yes my nickname is bunny you may laugh now Very funny right the naked chick?? I copied it from a naughty computer font I downloaded. Bought another ticket to USA to spend thanksgiving with Mike and his family. By this time we were crazily in love but could only see each other once in such a long while.
I don't know how I survived back then considering now I cannot let him out of my sight for more than 8 hours work and back, thanks nowadays!
It was beginning to feel very strained What is going to happen?
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When will Mike graduate even he is not sure coz he didn't know how many modules he could take and whether he could pass them all, etc? What is going to happen to our future? With all these uncertainties, we could only continue our relentless and expensive plow forward with faith that everything will turn out ok.
My self-drawn itinerary for the 30hr journey In Mike's grandma's huge house near a lake Got to know Mike's family, and I fell in love with them. Everyone there is crazily nice Letter from Mike's mom, sweetest mother-in-law one could ever ask for.
Mike was about to graduate from school!! I think he ended around February and scheduled to come to Singapore to stay during March, but I couldn't wait for it so I forced him to come during January He had no money so lao niang paid for his air ticket. It was a pretty short trip. He just came, kissed me a bit, and went back to the states to settle his stuff Say goodbye to his friends and family. Staying to work in USA, or seek his fortunes across the world in Singapore? I can't even imagine how scary is it to be Mike.
Fresh out of college, no money in the bank, no place to live in he had a rented house near college and lease ended. And yet, instead of applying for a job in Houston like most of his engineering friends did, he dropped everything that was ever important to him and flew all the way to Singapore to be with me. That was priority 1, everything else just had to work itself out.
And so, packing a few choice belongings, Mike bought a one-way ticket to Singapore Ok lah fine it's not a one-way ticket. The return was for Dec when we would go back for Xmas. But one-way sounds more adventurous mah! Life was shitty for Mike when he first came! He had to stay at my lousy Teban Gardens house in a tiny room with me, squashed in a supersingle sized mattress!
Although for his sake I did buy one in the end lah There was only one toilet and and it is always smelly coz Cloudy pees and shits in there. He had no privacy and no space, something which he is very used to in USA But other than shitty accomodation we had another more pressing problem Mike couldn't get a job.
Money was running low last time I didn't earn so much coz Nuffnang has not existed and both of us were getting more and more anxious. Every single day at 8am my poor baby would wake up and travel to various engineering companies with resumes in hand.
Since before he came to Singapore he already started handing out resumes electronically but had no replies Every day he comes back looking exhausted, disappointed, and worse of all, scared. As we grew more and more jaded each day, I started wondering if it was utterly selfish of me to force him to come here by my refusal to budge from my own country.
Afterall I had my career, family, and friends here I really didn't want to move to USA. I don't even have a degree and I'm pretty sure I'd end up being a waitress there.
A Modern Day Fairytale
I was also terrified that after giving up my life, he'd leave me. I wanted insurance and I AM selfish. Much more selfish than the man who gave up everything to be with me. Maybe he'd have a better life if we broke up and he went back to USA to work.
You know, get a good American girl and settle down with her. He can be near his family Maybe it's time to let go and stop forcing it. So I voiced this out, and Mike just hushed me. Still he relentlessly sent out resumes Many worrisome days later, Mike finally got an interview!! Not only that, his pay was good!! Ok lah I won't say how much but it's more or less like what he would get in USA. LOL We were so goddamn happy!! There was only one problem His work place in at Loyang and he is staying at Teban with me!
From Pasir Ris to Jurong. Can you believe my good fortune to get such an awesome guy?? Just in transition for till we get somewhere truly ours for 2 years Mike is going nowhere for 2 years woohoo!!! I also don't know what I spent that crazy amount on.
The recipe I wrote down was just on the kitchen table and unbeknownst to me, the sneaky bugger kept it Found this in his memorabilia box together with the plane tickets etc Everything else in between you have read on the blog The Best Decisions Today I was thinking about life and how decisions let us either make it or break it.
Or maybe that's just me coz I'm madly optimistic like that. Well, I think my life is pretty darn good so here are all the best, totally life-changing, decisions I think I've made in my life! Not in order of bestness. Many of you have asked about the love story between Mike and I. Well, to cut a very, very long story short I still hope it'd be made into a movie although it has no ending, yetwe met on the internet. Mike sent me an email.Draw My Life - Xiaxue's Guide To Life: EP143
A rather typical one I'd say He sent me that email because he likes short girls and wanted to correct me on my perception that all men love tall chicks! That email was rather funny but afterall I get quite a lot of emails from readers and I don't bother to reply most of them.
His email had a picture attached to it. Still, he's from America and what's the point of flirting with him when I'd probably never get to meet him, right?! So anyway, I replied, and a few more funny email replies from him later, we started to chat on msn The rest is history Or at least another blog post saved for another day! Even if he breaks my heart now at least I still had 3 of the happiest years of my life and nothing can take that away!!
Are they my happiest years? Ok I just thought about it and they are indeed. Thank god I was bored that one day in April So many times I've wanted to give up and shut down the blog after reading hurtful comments. Keep in mind I wasn't earning any money at those points so I basically was getting spewed vitriol at for nothing! Luckily for me, I'm bloody thick-skinned and an attention whore.
Surprisingly enough, nowadays haters just make me feel even more secure about myself. I go like, "Boo, this sad little fellow is spending all his time writing me a longass email trying his darnest to hurt me but the tragic thing is that I can't even be bothered to reply!
His name is mad funny right?! His email went into my spam folder. With a name like that obviously go into Spam ahahahaha! And for some reason I went to check it and saw that Turodrique wanted to sponsor and pay me to wear his t-shirts on my blog! Not wet white see-thru ones either! I was a poor student part-timing as a banquet waitress at this point so obviously I jumped at the chance!
This received local news coverage thanks Newpaper!
Xiaxue's Guide To Life: EP63 - Wedding Proposal
We discussed more about how to do this ie be honest it's an ad, or just do it sneakily? You can guess which route Turodrique advised me to choose - another great decision and till today he remains one of the greatest mentors I've ever had.
And he found it on milliondollarhomepage lah, just that he suggested I incorporate it on the blog. My mom, relatives, some friends yes you Howard!
Totally don't look ok lor. I only remember Kaykay telling me to go for it. I used to feel so conscious everytime my photo was taken coz I know the nose would be so goddamn mushroomy. And yet I chose to go against all these people who meant well for me and did it! I totally can't dig my nose with my finger anymore but it's totally worth it.
Believe it or not, I use the less severe end of the pimple picker like a spatula to scrap out boogers while showering. If you ever use my shower, I advise you not to use my pimple picker. Why the hell you using other people's pimple picker anyway?!